Should I lose it to a guy on craigslist?

don't do it!!! losing your virginity means so much more with the right person. if you go through with this you will regret it! last year i was planning on losing my virginity to this guy after prom. i just wanted to lose it because i didn't have any respect for myself and i had no self esteem. it was right after a boyfriend i had fallen in love with broke up with me. i felt so horrible but the guy i was going to lose it with changed his mind. that made me have even lower self esteem and i was ready to have sex with the next person who would have it with me. but i didn't do it, i decided sex wasn't a determinate of who you are. no one knows if you have ever had sex before or not. in my case people always thought i wasn't a virgin so i wanted to keep up with what they thought. but what other people think of you isn't important. if you believe in yourself good things will come to you. positive thoughts lead to positive actions. so i didn't have sex last year and six months ago i meet the most amazing guy in the world. he taught me how to love again and made life so much better. we had sex a few months ago and it was amazing, it meant so much more because i absolutely loved him. and because he loved me too he didn't care that i didn't know what i was doing, he taught me and we are so in love it's not even funny. so i say wait. but it is up to you, if you decide sex is all you want then good luck. i hope this helped. i say don't do it, but it's whatever you want to.